People you are kind to (even love) may sometimes misinterpret or be cynical with your kindness. The reason could be because they may have had bad experiences in the past, of people who pretended to care but actually took advantage of them. Do not hold this against them. Let your actions and attitude (of patience and perseverance in love) be your proof.
Be a dispenser of grace, not judgement, just as how God is with you. Just as you help people grow in faith, help them also to be restored in times of weaknesses. Just as how God is with you. Rejoice, and aim for restoration.